Hello world!
Wow I cannot believe how much good feedback my first blog post got! I have got so much support from my friends and family for this! so this blog it my first PROPER post and I have been querying on what to write about, because I have planned all of my posts, but it hit me about all of the suicidal incidents that have been happening recently, so I have decided after a lot of thinking that this will be about bullying. I am 50% sure that most people reading this have been a victim in a bullying incident. I have too. luckily for me the problem was resolved as soon as I told my mum, and she informed the teachers. I didn't really know it was bullying at the time though, I just thought it was a laugh with someone who I thought was my "friend", but clearly wasn't. this happened quite a while back now and I was a couple of years younger, so it didn't lead to serious measures, like some of these problems are nowadays. that's what I want to talk about. I want to give those people reading this who are victims of bullying, yet they might not know it, as much advice and tips as I can to help you get through this stage in life.
so my first tip would be to DEFINTLY tell someone! whether it is your best friend, you parent/carer, grandparents, teachers at school, anyone who will help you. and make sure you tell them as soon as you notice a problem brewing, even if its just that you notice someone looking at you turning away and laughing, tell someone. I know this will be hard for some of the more shy people, so tell someone you trust and who you know will support you and listen to everything you have to say and will help you. it is very important to tell somebody before it gets out of hand and you end up doing something you regret.
hopefully the bullying wont get this far, but sometimes it does. I have a friend who self harmed, I didn't even realise she was being bullied until she told me. and showed me what she did to relive the pain of being bullied. I can only imagine what it was like for her, but luckily for her she had her friends and family there to support her so it didn't get any further, but like I said, in some cases it does. I am sure everybody has seen lately on the news about how many young teenagers are committing suicide, due to bullying or the loss of friends, which leads to depression which in some cases leads to suicide. there are always two sides in a bullying case. the bully (1 or more person) and the victim. bullies will usually target the people who they think are weaker and not as likely to bite back ad stand up for themselves. then they will call you names, laugh at you, shout of you, sometimes it gets rough and becomes a physical bullying case. majority of the time, nowadays bullying happens over facebook,snap chat etc., social media networks. most people say that these social media networks are the root of most trouble and should not exist, I totally disagree. if you are on a social media network, it is because you have been trusted to use it responsibly, and not to cause trouble because its not the network that is causing the trouble, its the person behind the screen you are staring at. so be careful who you are talking to online, if its someone being mean block them!
so this was just a bit of a ramble about bullying, I promise on my next post (Sunday) it will be beauty related! I just felt like I needed to get off my chest, and I really hope this helped you people in this position, because your not alone. so yeah, next post will be about beauty and I know this was a long one but it was worth it I hope!
thank you so much for all the positive feedback I am getting, lets hope it carries on! comment what you thought about this random post and tell me if you liked it!
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